Five things caused me to feel extra happy today:
One. Knowing that in about 3 weeks (or less than 4 certainly) our little boy will be here for us to enjoy! I can't wait to meet him and love him and snuggle him. I know that Tenley is going to be the sweetest, most helpful sister--she already adores babies and particularly the one in my belly:) Whenever he gives me a particularly painful kick causing me utter "ow!" she runs over and hugs my belly and kisses it with a loud and exaggerated "mwah!" then she looks up at me to make sure I'm okay. She is the most darling little love.
Two. Watching Downton Abbey this evening. I'm so happy it's back! I wish all TV shows were done as well as Masterpiece Classics. I still haven't really gotten over the deaths of Matthew and especially Sybil, but I still love the show. If only I could make Dalin love it as much as he loves football;)
Three. Witnessing as Tenley's personality grows and develops--especially recently. She is a little comedian and quite the actress. I feel like such a bad mom when I--unintentionally of course--laugh at her naughty behavior but it's just hilarious to me that so little and young a person could learn certain facial expressions (and when to use them) so accurately.
Tenley has an extra vibrant personality at home--not that she doesn't around other people--she loves other people, especially when they give her attention--but she can be slow to reveal her personality right away in new situations. Like in nursery: she stands silently in the doorway for the first ten minutes looking at everyone like hey what am I doing here before she suddenly starts to play and interact. I've especially loved seeing her learn so many things recently, including several new words such as "up please" to get picked up, "bib," "piece" if I ask her if she wants a piece of something, and random phrases that she copies from Dalin and me like "ow" and "oops" and "shoes." I am thankful that her personality is so outgoing and friendly. She will go to anyone (if she doesn't go to a person on a particular day, it's only because she's in a bad mood and probably just wants mom) and she says "hello" to people randomly at restaurants and stores, which everyone loves. They're always surprised when Tenley starts yelling "hi! hi!" at them.
I'm also amazed at how smart she is for being 17 months old (tomorrow). During the sacrament portion at Church today, which we usually have to take in the hallway because of one wiggly member of our family, Tenley saw the bread trays being passed a mile away and started asking for "mo'? mo'?" in what seemed like a very loud voice for such a quiet meeting. But it was so funny to us because she's mostly only taken the sacrament in the hallway while playing and so we were surprised that she even recognized what the trays meant. Anyway, that's just one example, but she really makes me so happy to be her mom.
Four. The weather today wasn't exactly summery--the temperature hung around 40 degrees all day, but compared with some of the cold we've experienced lately it felt wonderful outside! Plus, the snow melting in large amounts, revealing the wet grass underneath made me feel like spring was already on it's way! Sadly, spring doesn't officially begin until March 20th, but I can still pretend.
Five. Making it to Church on time! Our new time is 8am and Relief Society is first and because I'm a teacher, I couldn't just arrive at my leisure. Even better, I loved the lesson on the first great commandment, which is to love the Lord with all of our heart, soul, mind, and strength. When we love Him first, everything in our lives can then fall into place. Loving Him first will also help us to be able to properly love our spouses, children, and others. Really it's a complete win for anyone that makes loving God their first priority.
Well, I'm kind of exhausted and this post turned into a lot of rambling from me, but I hope your Sabbath day was a peaceful, happy one. And if it was, what made you happy today?
Sunday, January 11
Wednesday, January 7
Baby #2: The Countdown
I am a terribly impatient person. I am always thinking about and planning for the future. It's not that I'm not satisfied with my life now at all--it's just that there are always fun and exciting things to look forward to and I know that life is going to get progressively better and I sometimes dwell too much on that.
But nothing tests one's patience like being in your final month of pregnancy. It's hard for everyone at this stage but I could drive myself crazy if I didn't find some ways to use my waiting time productively.
And since I know SO many lovely girls who are also pregnant right now (and quite a few due in just the next two months!) I thought I would share my ideas and hopefully inspire them, too. We all just have to hang in there. It feels like the wait will be endless, but a little while from now we'll be looking back and saying, "Wow, time flew!" and "I'm so glad I got so much accomplished before the baby arrived!" So without further ado, here is my busy list for the next month:
- Priority #1: Finish my online English class (which means writing just one essay and taking the final)
- Start (and get as far as possible!) my next online class. Maybe I'll take a fun one as a reward for how horrendous this last one has been for me.
- Find a few more gifts and plan for Dalin's 25th birthday in less than a month!
- Plan out gifts for Valentine's day! (for Dalin, Tenley, (baby boy), and maybe a few others)
- Put together some little notes/treats for my delivery nurses and doctor
- Purge. We have so much stuff. I have so much stuff. Way more than I actually wear or use on a regular basis. I'm going to continue to (it's been an ongoing process) gather up the stuff we haven't used in a long time or that we've never used (sadly, there's a lot of that) and sell or give those things away. It would be so nice to clear up some space around here for the baby.
- Stay on top of organization around here. I wish I could say that should be easy but Tenley likes to make messes so it's actually pretty much impossible.
- Finally rent Maleficent and/or Austenland like I have been meaning to FOREVER!
- Do some painting. Because it makes me happy and I feel like I've accomplished something after.
- Try at least two new (easy and healthy) recipes that I will feel up to making in the weeks following our baby's birth.
- Prepare for my mom's arrival on January 27th! I can't wait! She hasn't been out here in forever and it's always such a relief to have her around--she always does so much for us when she's here! Hello to consistently clean laundry and regular meals:)
- Stock up on diapers and wipes for little guy. Besides the double stroller Dalin got me for Christmas (which I love and am so psyched about!!), pretty much all we've needed for this guy are some boy clothes, diapers, and wipes. We got a lot of gender neutral stuff (intentionally) the first time so thankfully we haven't had to spend a ton of money.
- Eat 6 dates a day (and take my prenatal--blah, I've been bad at that). At first I thought dates were disgusting, but they've grown on me. I read a study that suggests it helps increase natural induction by the due date and reduces recovery time among other benefits. I kind of am skeptical of anything that claims to truly induce labor (because I tried almost everything last time and I didn't even get a contraction until I was induced at 41 weeks) and tend to think that everyone who has had some random measure work for them was probably just going to go into labor that night or the next day anyway, but this seems simple enough that it wouldn't require too much effort to do daily for the next few weeks. If you're interested, here is where I read about the dates...it was a small study so who knows how accurate it will prove to be, but dates are healthy so why not.
- Get my hospital bag packed (which will take two seconds now that I know how little you actually need so I'm not too concerned about this one).
- Go on a few more last-minute dates with just Dalin before we have two kids to fill up our lives (though it'll be a happy thing to fill our lives with;).
- Continue good habits for 2015--get 9 hours of sleep (including naps if I ever take any), drink a water bottle (or more) a day, read scriptures and pray daily as a family and privately. We've been on a roll this year so far. I am seriously considering painting a sign that says "It has been ___ days since the last time we missed a prayer or scripture."
Do you have any other ideas to help keep me busy over the next four weeks?? I'd love any!
Best,
Tuesday, January 6
Our 24-Hour Emergency Bag: The Basics
I have wanted to put together an emergency kit (as well as establish some food storage) for a long time. LDS Church leaders have encouraged all members “to prepare for adversity in life by having a basic supply of food and water and some money in savings." Because I have witnessed the words of our wise Church leaders prove to be true multiple times, I trust them on this and believe in the importance of acting on their advice.
I am pretty sure we are supposed to be striving to establish emergency kits that will last at least 72 hours, but because I just made a spur of the moment decision to put together a kit today with only items we already own (nesting and moving on the brain--plus I had no car), ours is more of a 24, maybe 48-hour variety. But it also contains most of our camping supplies which will be convenient for when we eventually go.
Anyway, first I grabbed my old backpack that had been sitting in the back of a closet.
Next, I gathered up our camping supplies (besides our sleeping pads and tent) and a few random items. I have insect repellent (obviously more of a camping thing but who knows), our binoculars, a poncho, some rubber gloves, a mess kit, a matchbox and candle (in the baby food jar--there's a better pic in a minute), some duck tape, chapstick, lotion, a pen and pencil, a mini first-aid kit, a working flashlight, and a pocket knife.
I also added some unopened peanut butter, black beans, and tuna (which I hate, but in an emergency I'd totally eat it) as well as an extra pair of socks for me and Dalin.
In the baby food jar, I stuck a little tea-light candle (the only type of candle we own) and a box of matches. Maybe someday I'll raid the laundry room for lint to add to the jar to use as a fire starter in an emergency.
The backpack has two water bottle-sized pockets, one on each side, so I stuck a bottle in each.
Inside the backpack is a little pouch at the back for a laptop. I used it to store one of our large, but fairly thin and less-used blankets.
Here is what the front pocket looks like with everything inside.
Let's face it, this isn't much and if this were Walking Dead, we'd be in big trouble (though according to one of those stupid Facebook quizzes Dalin and I would last about 6 months so that's somewhat comforting). But it's a start, and for us, it's better than what we had before.
Obviously, I have a few things in mind to add to this bag, including:
a roll of toilet paper
tin foil
utensils
a couple of plastic bags (of various sizes)
more food (canned, nonperishable items)
water purifying tablets (or something similar)
copies of our IDs and important documents
a small radio, compass, or watch
space blankets
extra contact lenses, cases, and solution for Dalin and me (we both have terrible eyes and wouldn't last an hour without contacts)
A copy of The Book of Mormon (because you never know)
I think though, if an emergency did come up and I had time to grab this bag and the kids, I'd also take two seconds and grab some of these items from our apartment and a change of clothes for each of us. I think it would be worth the risk because otherwise we wouldn't be surviving very long anyway.
(In case you can't tell, I've watched a few too many episodes of The Walking Dead and though it wouldn't have to be that extreme of a situation for us to use this kit, it definitely gets you thinking about worst-case scenarios).
Now just for fun, here are the five personal things I would grab (besides my family members) for myself if I knew we were never returning to our apartment:
- My journal. I've written in a journal since I was 13 and it would be one of the only sentimental things I think I would take with me. Unfortunately, it would be impractical to take the other 30-something I've already filled. All those years...wasted.
- My scriptures. I think we'd need something to read and comfort us if we were to experience the trial of having to leave our home. Plus, if nothing else, I would want my family to be spiritually strong in such circumstances--particularly if there was a chance we could die.
- My digital camera and charger if there was electricity. I would want to be able to see photos of my family members. If I wouldn't be able to charge it, I would grab one of our photo albums.
- My phone and charger--but only if I knew I would be able to use it to contact my far-away family members. If there was no electricity then I wouldn't bother. I'd take my little army knife (which I use all the time) instead.
- I'm torn between saying a pillow and our emergency savings (assuming food and toilet paper were going to be available to us already). Obviously if things were going to go back to the way they were I'd want our savings, but if the world was forever changed, then forget it--I'm taking my pillow. And if it wasn't so inconvenient to carry, I'd specifically take my new full-body maternity pillow which Dalin bought me for Christmas. I could sleep anywhere with that thing.
What other emergency items do you think I really need to add to our kit?
Thanks for reading! I hope this got you thinking about your own emergency prep or that it entertained you if nothing else;)
A Brief(ish) Painting Tutorial
I have a few friends and blog readers who have requested that I do a painting tutorial of some sort. Dalin also encouraged me to make one, suggesting I do kind of an art blog. I would love to be able to make my painting/crafting a regular part of this blog, but I am not sure that this is the year for that. Still, I don't want to leave those of you who are wanting painting tips hanging.
Hence, I am going to put together a brief tutorial for tonight that I will hopefully be able to build off of later and maybe do a more in-depth step-by-step post at some point in the future if you guys would like that (so let me know! Because otherwise I have to assume most of you aren't interested!).
Also, I am by no means an art teacher. I am just telling you what I do and what I have learned from taking various art classes in high school. I also have painting in my blood (my great uncles or something--Frank French and Daniel Chester French were both fairly famous artists) so I already had an advantage. Nevertheless, this does not mean you should not even try! I honestly believe that anyone can paint well if they take my basic advice offered below and of course, practice. (It's like Ratatouille--anyone can be a chef an artist!)
1. Have a Photo or Image for Reference
So to start, I thought I'd explain that painting is a zillion times easier when you have a photo for reference. I always use a picture or painting when I start. When I don't, the painting never turns out the way I want it to. I would show you an example of this, except I already painted over the last painting I did from my head because I hated it. Below I will show you three paintings I've done in the last month, starting with the reference photos that I used (aka, I did not paint the first three images below myself--I found them on Pinterest when browsing for painting/gift ideas for Christmas).
Reference Photo
| "Season of Light" by Barrie VanOsdell |
Reference Photo
| By Ovanes Berberian
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2. Prep Your Canvas if Necessary
So once you have chosen an image, you have a few options. You can just start painting, which is what I do because I've had a lot of practice, or you can very lightly pencil in the main details/ outlines directly onto the canvas. I say lightly because if you use the pencil too heavily, the pencil dust will mix with your paint on the canvas and create smudges. If you have never painted before or have trouble drawing freehand, my suggestion to you would be printing out the image you want to do and gridding it. If you do this, you will also (again lightly) grid your canvas using the same scale. Then you can use each square as a reference for what color and detail you are painting within each individual square. (I'm not sure how well I explained that, so let me know if you need clarification).
3. Start with the Background and Move to the Foreground
I think any painter or artist will give you this advice. Many a painter has learned the hard way by starting on the focal point (a tree, for example) and then having to suffer the madness of filling in and adequately blending the background against this. It is a huge pain and can be really frustrating, especially if you are new to painting. So remember, *start with the background*! If the background is a sky, a mountain, a blur of trees, and water (like the first painting below), start with those basic parts. Just *put paint on the canvas*. It is scary at first, because you might worry about messing up, but really, the first layer is almost impossible to mess up. My next piece of advice would be to *paint what you see, not what you know*. This is a hard for some people to grasp at first. You know the sky is usually light blue, but is it light blue in the picture? Is it more white or more blue? Is it pinkish or purple-toned? Very rarely is the sky just plain light blue. Look at the actual colors of the picture and forget what your brain tells you they should be.
In elementary school, they basically teach you to draw a tree that has a brown trunk and green leaves like so:
But real tree trunks are usually gray with various shades of brown, black, and white mixed in. Real foliage is not just one big green clump, but thousands of individual leaves of various shades of greens and yellows like the one below. So again, paint what you see, not what you know.
4. Create a Very Rough Draft of the Main Colors and Shapes in the Painting
Just *get the colors and shapes of things down on the canvas*. It can be hard to allow yourself to do this freely, but it will help you big time in the long run. It also makes it much easier to finalize your painting later on. Since it's supposed to be a rough draft, I usually rush through this part. I simply see that there is a lot of orange (for example) on one area of the picture and I mix up a similar orange and paint that shape on the canvas. Note that if your image has trees, you will want to at least do a basic outline of each major tree trunk and branches and also add a few blobs of color for the foliage. It doesn't have to be perfect, but you will be so grateful later on if you don't have to go through one tree at a time adding every single detail. Once all of the main colors and shapes are on the canvas, I know I can move on to the final step, which is fine-tuning the image.
I neglected to take a full "before" shot of the first painting I did, but you can get the gist somewhat from this image of a corner of the canvas. Compare these images to the final thing and you will see what I mean about these being rough drafts.
5. Fill in the Details
This is by far the most time-consuming part (as it should be) but it's my favorite because it is exciting when you begin to see your painting come together. Sometimes I am all over the place when I am adding details, but generally, I am doing as many objects of one color at a time as I can so I don't have to clean my brush three thousand times. In the painting below I did all of the tree trunks and branches in the same stretch, and then I did all of the orange leaves in the entire painting, and then all of the yellow leaves. This saved me the time of doing all the different colors of one tree and instead creating a basic image that grew clearer and clearer the more details (aka splotches of color) I added.
When adding details, really *pay attention to the shadows and highlights* you see. It may not make sense to you that a tree would appear to have a white highlight, but if that's how it looks on the image, that's what you should do. It can feel scary to add a color or shade that your brain is telling you does not make sense in that location, but trust your eyes and you will be much happier with the results. I know that rocks aren't blue, but I saw a lot of blue in the image of the rocks and so that is what I did. Paying attention to the colors you see is very important.
And that brings us to another piece of advice--if you don't already have some knowledge of color theory, it might be to your advantage to look it up. Basically, if you understand the primary colors (red, yellow, blue), the secondary colors (orange, green, purple), and color mixing, you're off to a good start.
I think though that it's also important to be aware of what complementary colors are. Essentially, they are the colors opposite one another on a color wheel, and by using them near one another, the colors will actually be accentuated more. Red, for instance, really makes green pop when the colors are near each other. When blended, the two create what I would describe as a more muted color, which in many cases, means more realistic. In the painting just above of the English lake for example, I added a little bit of red to my green paint to mute the green tones which were overpowering and "unrealistic." If you do two equal amounts of two complementary colors and over-mix your paint, you usually end up with some shade of brown.
Which reminds me--*mix your colors gently*! You might think you have way too much yellow in your green, but in real life, (or at least in art life) things are rarely one tone or color. Usually objects are a blend of many shades and colors, so you will actually find your objects look more realistic if you do not mix your paint too well. By the way, I used acrylic paint in the three paintings above which is a water-based paint (unfortunately, it still does stain clothing if you don't rinse it really well asap) and dries fairly quickly. I like acrylics because they are very cheap (like $1.00 or less per color and I only buy the primary colors plus black and white) and it easy to fix mistakes because you can paint over them. I have very little experience with oil paints yet (mainly because they cost $$$) but I am told they are very fun because the colors are more vibrant, the paint has more texture (which painters always want to create), and it dries more slowly.
Basically, when I did each of these paintings, I did them in two days (with quite a few hours given on each day). On day one, I choose my picture, then just cover the canvas in paint. I don't want to see any white spots on the canvas. I do a very basic background and then I add in the vague shapes and colors seen in the picture. On day two, I already have a good foundation, I just need to make some fine-tuned alterations and add details.
Painting is really fun and meditative for many people, me included. It should not be stressful!--even if you think you don't know how to paint or if you feel like yours is not turning out quite the way you had hoped, don't let that stress you out! Recognize that you will have your own style of painting, and you might not be as good at one type as another person. Look for your style and embrace it when you find it! You will find your paintings are much more satisfactory when you do this.
I listen to music while I paint (I get too distracted by TV or movies and it ends up taking hours longer) and even with numerous interruptions from my one-year old, I still find it soothing (but I definitely try to save painting for when she is in bed or dad is home to distract her a little). Some people need peace and quiet when they paint and that's fine, too. Whatever works for you--just figure out your style and get excited about it! Monet, Da Vinci, and Picasso are nothing alike and they're all very famous.
Oh, one more thing!--Don't forget to sign or initial your painting! Try to do it in a small, discreet place. Traditionally, I believe, artists sign in the bottom right corner, but I kind of sign whichever corner is most convenient. Other artists hide their signature somewhere in the painting. It can even be just on the side or back of the canvas, it's up to you. I also date my paintings--at least the year--on the back so I have some idea of when I did them.
Please, if you have any questions for me, do not hesitate to ask! Also I'd love to know if you would be interested in more posts about painting/painting tips/crafts, etc. I try to write what interests me but I do care about my audience. I don't want anyone to be bored to death, so help a sister out and give me some tips!
Happy painting!
Sunday, January 4
Mushy Post About Dalin 10315
Sorry to get all mushy on you (as you know I sometimes do), but I really just have to share how much I love my husband, Dalin. He puts up with so much crap from me (namely my whining and complaining about lots of silly little things mostly) and is so patient. He is the complete opposite of me in that regard--while I become easily frustrated, he has the ability to remain calm almost no matter the situation. (I've literally seen/heard him get "really" mad one time (it wasn't even at me) which was when he thought his expensive golf clubs had been stolen).
Like any great husband, Dalin is especially wonderful when he knows I am in need. Like now during the last few weeks of pregnancy. My body is just small and weak and since I seem to make fairly big babies (Tenley was 8lbs 3oz and nobody could believe she came out of me), I just ache terribly with the additional weight. My back, feet, and stomach seem to suffer especially. At my 34ish week appointment I weighed 128lbs. With Tenley, my highest weight was 136lbs so as you can imagine, I'm feeling very close to my limit at this point. I am uncomfortable and tired, my back is sore from being pulled forward by my massive baby bump, and chasing a young toddler who doesn't fully grasp the concept of "No" or of listening is just hard and exhausting. Much more so than the first time around. I am therefore incredibly thankful for how helpful Dalin has been to me in these past few weeks in particular.
One thing I've noticed is that the longer we have been together, the less frequent (and less stupid) our arguments have become. I have also started to feel almost a sense of balance in our marriage that I am not sure was fully present until recently. We now know each other so well and have matured in several ways over the years together (and I am certain we will continue to do so in the infinity to come). Now there is what I would describe as a deeper understanding between us. Our love is more sincere and sweet than it ever was. Our friendship and our sense of companionship has increased to a point that is so very different from when we were first married. We are still as playful as ever and our joking and laughs with one another have not ceased, but our mutual respect for each other's desires and goals has increased. It is so true what they say about husbands and wives becoming more and more like each other (and it makes sense, especially when you're around each other almost 24/7). I just truly feel like when it's the two of us, we bring out the best in each other.
Anyway, here are some great things about Dalin that I just love:
Like any great husband, Dalin is especially wonderful when he knows I am in need. Like now during the last few weeks of pregnancy. My body is just small and weak and since I seem to make fairly big babies (Tenley was 8lbs 3oz and nobody could believe she came out of me), I just ache terribly with the additional weight. My back, feet, and stomach seem to suffer especially. At my 34ish week appointment I weighed 128lbs. With Tenley, my highest weight was 136lbs so as you can imagine, I'm feeling very close to my limit at this point. I am uncomfortable and tired, my back is sore from being pulled forward by my massive baby bump, and chasing a young toddler who doesn't fully grasp the concept of "No" or of listening is just hard and exhausting. Much more so than the first time around. I am therefore incredibly thankful for how helpful Dalin has been to me in these past few weeks in particular.
One thing I've noticed is that the longer we have been together, the less frequent (and less stupid) our arguments have become. I have also started to feel almost a sense of balance in our marriage that I am not sure was fully present until recently. We now know each other so well and have matured in several ways over the years together (and I am certain we will continue to do so in the infinity to come). Now there is what I would describe as a deeper understanding between us. Our love is more sincere and sweet than it ever was. Our friendship and our sense of companionship has increased to a point that is so very different from when we were first married. We are still as playful as ever and our joking and laughs with one another have not ceased, but our mutual respect for each other's desires and goals has increased. It is so true what they say about husbands and wives becoming more and more like each other (and it makes sense, especially when you're around each other almost 24/7). I just truly feel like when it's the two of us, we bring out the best in each other.
Anyway, here are some great things about Dalin that I just love:
- He helps around the house. Sometimes I feel like I am asking too much of Dalin when he already works full time and attends school full time, but he doesn't complain (maybe he groans jokingly when I first ask him, but that's merely his attempt to be funny;). He also definitely has gotten better at helping without me having to ask him. From taking out the trash, to carrying the laundry out to the laundry building, to changing Tenley's diapers, and picking up the after-dinner mess I usually leave behind, he is so great and I appreciate him doing those things more than he knows.
- He thinks of clever and creative gifts. Dalin is really good at finding gifts that I will love which (though I think I'm pretty easy to shop for because I like almost anything) is impressive considering I rarely ask for anything or give him ideas of what I want. He comes up with fun, special gifts that he knows I'll treasure. He also knows how much I love experiences, like when he surprised me with a night at a hotel for Mother's Day last year (he even packed my bag:). I love that about him. It's obvious that a lot of thought goes into those things and that honestly and truly means more to me than the gift itself.
- He listens to me and supports me when I have an idea. When I tell Dalin that I want to be better at scripture-reading, or tell him that I don't think we should watch a certain show, or when I tell him that I'd like him to do something a little bit more often, he listens. He tells me he will try to do better and supports me. It makes communicating with him so much easier and I am so thankful we established that early in our marriage.
- He is a very patient and caring dad to Tenley. Like I mentioned before, Dalin is a very patient and calm person. It takes a lot for him to get mad. When he's upset, he is much more rational than I am. I have a short fuse and get worked up with little effort. Dalin never gets mad at Tenley...if she is misbehaving, he handles it much better than I usually do. He is a really good example to me of the kind of parent I want to be.
- He is very wise and intelligent. Dalin is really smart and retains information much better than I do. People will sometimes think he is taciturn or shy because he does not always say a lot but that is because he doesn't just talk to talk (unlike me, you can't really get me to stop talking). He only speaks up when he has something to add to the conversation. He rarely puts his foot in his mouth (ha, also unlike me...) and people value his opinion because he gives it after much consideration. I love this about him because he helps me to be more cautious when I speak. He forces me to be more aware of what I am saying and helps me to get my point across more clearly. I really appreciate this quality in him.
- He helps me to see myself more positively. I can be really negative about myself. For example, I get frustrated when I am having a bad hair day or whatever but Dalin always makes me feel pretty and valued. He makes me feel just as pretty without makeup as he does when I have obviously spent a good amount of time getting ready. He never makes me feel jealous of other women because he is completely loyal to me and never does or says anything that makes me feel like I'm being compared. My heart is full of love toward him for that loyalty.
You can tell I'm a really lucky wife, right? Oh, I just love Dalin so much and am so happy to be his wife. I am so thankful for the wonderful friend that he is to me and for how much joy he brings our family. I hope I can become more like him in many aspects.
What are the qualities you really love in your husband (or would love in a future one)?
I always find I am much happier when I focus on the good in my spouse and pay him those compliments so he is aware that I noticed them.
Hope you have started your New Year off on the right foot! Happy 2015:)
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